Ahhhh money, money, money. This subject can drive some people crazy when they don't have it. You can have money or not, this is actually not very useful if you want to live a life of fulfillment. Money will solve a lot of problems, but it won't make you someone unique. Get beyond that, work on yourself instead. That's the more valuable thing you can do.
MONEY WILL GET ATTENTION, THAT'S ALL.
Don’t hide yourself behind excuses, this brings you nowhere. Money isn't everything. Even if can make a significant difference. If you don't have money to invest, invest your time. It's as simple as that.
Furthermore, even with a lot of money some guys still screw everything up. Because you bring her to the restaurants or buy her gifts too early in the relationships, the woman will begin to think « the man is trying to buy me » Women will see this as manipulation and a lack of confidence. Both things that are attraction killers. The woman may answers your calls and let her take her out, but that’s simply because she enjoys free shits. And to be honest, who doesn’t ? - Think about it.
If you have nothing else to offer but your money, you're not very valuable as a man. Because a lot of men do have money. But if you don't have money, then everything will be much harder in your life. So if you are 22 years old like me, and you don't have a job - money - then you better have a very very strong personality, charisma. But go get a job right now ! Because you won't make the woman of your life happy with peanuts.
AFTER A CERTAIN POINT, IT'S MEANINGLESS.
Women wants a man that can please her at any moment without pulling out his wallet. Trying to make up with a lack of confidence with money won’t resolve the problem. That’s not how it works. More money more problems.
You know some people say, I will get this job, and then this house, this car, this money THEN the women will like me. That is not true. Money won't change anything. If you suck, you suck. Period.
If you shows her too much interest (paying her gifts, hotels, whatever) in the beginning, you are suddenly telling her that your wallet is all that you have to offer. But that's not the case. You're reading this blog so you're awesome !
PERSONALITY, YOUR MOST VALUABLE ASSET.
Personality is key. It’s natural, it’s organic, it’s who you are as a person. Deep down women are attracted to your personality much more than any other trait. When you’ll have a great personality, women will chase you. And if you also have money, then you're very valuable to them. You don't have an outstanding personality yet ? Well, work on yourself. As my mentor Jim Rohn said, invest your time when you don't have money. Just be better today than you were yesterday. Sometimes little decisions can have a huge impact on your future. Your time is now !
And maybe one day, you'll have all the grils you want, all the money you want, and all the happiness you deserves. To be more, read books, blogs, articles... There are plenty of ressources that can change your life for the better. Including this blog. Sign up today, and you'll begin a journey my friend that you will never forget as long as you live.